Wednesday, June 16, 2010

nothing new to report

Dear Family,
This week has been another regular week here in San Lorenzo.  But changes are coming up soon.  Transfers are next week (which means that Pday is tuesday next week) and the whole mission has been asked to attend.  I can't decide if there are going to be lots of major changes or if the changes will be kept to a minimum.  It is the last transfer before the merger.  The missions merge and the new President arrives on July first.  I am eager to see what will be taking place.  I am also extremely, extremely excied to see my MTC companion Hermana Miller again.  I wonder what she has learned and experienced over on the west side of the island.  Everyone says that the new mission pres is super strict (but that is from the Puerto Ricans so I don't know how strict that really is).  I will find out soon.
Really. Nothing exciting happened this week.  Just more of the same.  Our recent convert, Nadia, came with us to teach several appointments.  I really enjoy spending time with her.  She is really calm and has a soothing presence.  She enjoys spending time with us too since and I think she considers us goo frinds of hers.  I enjoy laughing and telling stories with her.  She is patient with my Spanish and I really appreciate that.
 I am super excited that Keri should be going into the MTC about now.  TWish I could be there to support her and send little goodies like she always did for me.
Love you all
Nadia' Baptism
Elder Crawley and Elder Snow interviewing Nadia
Me, Hna Castillo, Nadia, Deisha, and Kiara
Hermana Palmer

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Turning the blend in San Lorenzo


Granny that's great that you read Scarlett.    Although I do congratulate you on reading the book,  Scarlett,  I will never read the "sequel" to Gone with the Wind.  I may end up scarred the rest of my life for it, but I am not ready for closure.
Markie have fun at BYU.  Go to bed on time.  Don't ditch class.  And do your homework.  You won't regret it.  But have fun with your ward!  You will love it!
Monday, was  Hermana Castillo's birthday.  For her birthday surprise I decided to write  on post it notes and scatter them through out the house.  It ended up being really fun to watch her search and scour throughout the house. Now I know why grandpa loved hiding the dollar bills every Christmas morning.  It was quite entertaining and she really loved it.
I also baked a cake from scratch.  That was a new adventure.  I didn't have a cake mix on hand. But fortunately I was able to whip something up.  I don't think I will ever be a chef, but it was fun and nice.  We celebrated her birthday in Deysha and Gerson's home at an incredible FHE.
Baking at Deisha and Gerson's house

I know that I am truly a missionary of Christ.  One key indicator of this is the people with whom I spend my time.  The Lord spent his time with the downcast and down-trodden.  It is amazing how those people in the ward seem to find their way to the missionaries.  We invite a lot of people to the FHE's that we do, but it is interesting how we collect a group of refugees.  At the last FHE we basically exchanged testimony and experience.  These people have seen hardship in their lives.  I know that I have lived and extremely blessed and sheltered life.  I am so grateful for the opportunity I have to know and support these people who teach me so much about the hardship, trials, and faith which shape our world.  I treasure every word they share with me and hope that I can hold to their inspiring stories when the winds and torrents of the future come my way.  Those who were present shared of overcoming addictions, the sorrows of divorce, the inability to have children, unemployment and extreme poverty, abandonment.  One member who has been happily married for the past 29 years has recently and sorrowfully separated from her husband.  Often I reflect on the testimonies of these people and wonder what will my trial be?  How will I react?  Will I have the courage and strength to rely on my Savior and hold to his glorious gospel?  Yes.  I know that I will.  Those around me have showed my how.  My ancestors long ago paved the way and I am willing to follow.

Wednesday, June 2, 2010

The Best of Times and the Worst of Times



Dear Family,
It sounds like the Richins Retreat was an incredible success!  I can't believe how many boys are in our family now with all the great-grandchildren.  I don't know if I could have handled it.
I got a little home-sick looking at Markie's graduation pictures.  I wish I could be there.  Markie is going to have a blast a BYU.  Oh, the joy of pre-mi dating.  There is nothing like it.  So much fun.
This week we explored a little more of our enormous area.   We set up an appointment with some members in our ward to visit their house and get to know them.  When we asked for directions, they laughed and told us to meet them at Walgreens and we could follow them.  Boy, was that a good idea.  We followed them for 40 minutes on the tiniest, windiest roads through and over and around the mountains.  
When we finally reached their house all the way on top of the mountain, they told us that we had just reached the beginning of the sector Quebrada Arenas and that our area extends past that point for another good hour.  Oh my heavens!  I hope we never have to travel all the way out there.  It was such a blessing though to meet with them.  It was such a blessing to reach there house though.  They are a great family, that very easily could have gone unnoticed.  Since then we have been in close contact and they have helped us so much.  They really want to help us the missionaries and share with their friends.
 What we have been doing this past week is meeting with all the members and less actives that we can to teach them the Plan of Salvation with a visual aid. We them give them their own visual aid and challenge them to teach the plan to us the next week and then to a friend or family member who they think might be interested.
It has been great so far.  I am surprised how enthusiastic the members are. Many of them have expressed that they want to share but don't know how.  When we ask the members who they plan to share with, most already have a name in mind.  I hope that this plan works to get members more involved and to help us find new investigators.  I have been working harder than I ever have before on my mission to find people to teach, but frankly we have had no success.  I have scoured the area book, contacted with more zeal than ever but I am sad to report that we currently have no investigators. 
I hope and pray that this works, or at least gives us a little more direction as a companionship.
Hermana Castillo taught me how to do my hair in dubi's before I go to bed
Yesterday, Hermana Castillo and I lent service to an inactive member.  She, Samaris, runs a flea market out of her garage and all the proceeds go to needy persons in the area.  She started the flea market to help pay the medical bills for her daughter who had serious mental and physical handicaps. Her daughter passed away several years ago, but since then the flea market has grown and continues to contribute to needy persons. 
I thoroughly enjoyed that kind of service.  We had to clear everything out of the garage in order to accommodate some new clothing racks Samaris had just purchased.  It was an enormous, but enjoyable task.  It reminded me of Granny and Aunt Annie.  They totally would have enjoyed browsing the goods.  I loved examining all the odd knick-knacks on the top layer of stuff. But as we dug deeper the stuff became more and more random, pointless, and gross.  I think a large portion of the contents could be thrown away.  But who knows? I would never be able to run a flea market.
I have also started today the very needed and intense deep clean of the apartment.  Pretty much everytime I move into a new apartment I have to do a deep clean or else I go crazy.  Generations of missionaries have gone weeks, months, years?  without cleaning the fridge, the oven, the porch, mysterious piles of rags, and who know what else. I prefer not to dwell on the possibilities.
Things with my companion are slowly improving. My endurance for Spanish is certainly increasing and I am trying to talk more.  It is easy to fall into the rut of thinking that most things are not worth the effort of saying.  All those comments and chit-chat we mindlessly rattle off in English don't seem worth the effort in Spanish.  The unfortunate consequence is that I have no desire to speak.  I could go hours and hours without speaking to my companion if I wanted to, but obviously that is not good for companion unity.  I am trying to talk more.
Honestly, this week has been hard, but the tiniest ray of sunshine is beginning to shine out.  I constantly think of the image of a rock rolling down the side of the mountain.  I have got a huge chink that the Lord is trying to cut out.  I am haphazardly and wildly tumbling down the mountain. But I know that I am exactly where I am supposed to be and with exactly who I am supposed to be. Things will all work out in time.
Love Hermana Palmer
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